Dominatrix Escorts in London by Marie

The endless discussion on Fifty Shades of Grey has increased exponentially since the movie’s successful Valentine’s Day 2015 release, and even if the story line has broken very little new ground for connoisseurs of BDSM, it has provoked a lot of conversation about the appeal of this decidedly piquant form of intimacy. The novel features the macho, controlling Christian Grey who initiates his submissive, the innocent Anastasia Steele into her first sexual experience and the world of BDSM.

The Daily Beast has a sterling article ‘A Dominatrix reviews Fifty Shades of Grey‘ which looks at how much of the movie rings true with true BDSM aficionados. The author, Mistress D. Sandoval nails it with her description of

” E.L. James’s watered-down BDSM-related fantasy that’s been translated into a Hollywood movie targeting the general population; a populist bondage film..”

While some aspects of the movie, such as the ‘Red Room of Pain’ will have true fans of the fetish salivating for its elegant and flexible design, most will find the movie itself tepid rather than spicy.

The professional Dominatrix will also make the point that while the film is very much centered on the male/dominant, female/submissive aspect of BDSM, in reality escorts specialising in the field tend to see the exact opposite.  Male clients come to them because they enjoy the role of the submissive and relish a sexy woman dominating them, something which critics of the books and movie seem to be oblivious to when they insist that the concept of BDSM is one which entrenches gender inequality and the abuse of women.

The male client who seeks out a Dominatrix Escort in London or any other major centre is rarely submissive in real life. A Dominatrix will typically see businessmen who are powerful and commanding in their jobs and lives, but want the fantasy of being the naughty schoolboy with a strict headmistress (who happens to be smoking hot), or some other version along that theme. The experience is cathartic, fun, relieves stress and plays into fantasies they have which they prefer to enjoy at the hands of an expert. Make no mistake, you cannot dress up in leather, wield a whip and call yourself a Dominatrix. There is skill and insight required to take the client up to the point of maximum intensity without hitting breaking point.

Dominatrix Escorts in London

A professional Dominatrix Escort is one who knows how to play the lead role in the fantasy in such a way that she brings her client along for the ride. She knows how to balance pain and pleasure, humiliation and all the other elements of the experience in such a way as to allow her client complete expression of his desires in a a safe and controlled environment.

Booking a Dominatrix Escort in London

Men who have never booked an appointment with a Dominatrix escort may be nervous, but there is little to worry about in the hands of a professional. Always advise the agency if you have something in particular in mind so that they can let the Dominatrix know. Once you are safely in hand, your Dominatrix, who you should address with ‘Miss’ or ‘Mistress’, and never by name, will take charge of the situation and deal with you firmly and appropriately. With a professional, you are in safe hands and limits are always in place to protect both parties while ensuring that the fantasy is fully explored and the clients needs are fully met.

City Butterflies Dominatrix Escorts in London

At City Butteflies we have a range of stunning escorts including some of the best Dominatrix Escorts in London. We have blondes, brunettes, busty girls, girls with a model build and much more. Most of all, our Dominatrix escorts have the skills to provide you with the experience you desire. Don’t hesitate to call our friendly helpline if you have any questions or want to make a booking.

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Fifty Shades of Grey & the Escort Industry by Marie

Probably the most impressive aspect to E L James Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy is the name which certainly does conjure up the right effect when it comes to describing the nuances in the way the escort industry is viewed. Fifty shades of grey is a gradation that can be applied to human sexuality (including the escort industry) in general. Human sexuality is all about taboos, and breaking them, and that almost automatically means that what you think of as acceptable, that is your shades of grey are probably something you keep to yourself and your intimate partners.
How many people would be shocked to know that the quite, studious student you see at the library works as an escort by night? Or that the staid teacher you had at school had a fondness for another type of discipline altogether at home with her husband? There are many parallels to what society thinks is acceptable to be drawn between Fifty Shades of Grey & the Escort Industry.
What the novels and the movies have certainly done is to open up conversations about human sexuality and what is acceptable, and what people have found is that humans are very imaginative and innovative when it comes to this most basic biological need. Certainly BDSM is out of the closet and in every high street store in the form of merchandise, as well as on the menu at some of the best rated restaurants and hotels in the world. Someone is buying sexy whips and hand-cuffs and if it’s not your neighbour, it’s probably YOU!
The point is people are becoming more adventurous and there is no putting the genie back in the bottle. People have discovered the unlimited adventures that are available to them, and they want to be able to sample some of the dishes from the buffet. Not every dish may be your thing, but that doesn’t mean that applies to others. Right now, it has become acceptable to show an interest in BDSM. Of course, BDSM is not the only dish, or set of dishes on the buffet table. There are many more, and just because something isn’t to everyone’s taste doesn’t mean it’s to yours.
What do you do if you are in a very happy relationship or marriage with someone who really isn’t into some of the pleasures that you fantasise about? Maybe your thing is being with two busty young women, but your wife wouldn’t like that, so you discreetly book time with escorts so you can indulge yourself without risking your marriage. Maybe you enjoy being with a dominating female – a very common male fantasy, but one which is not going to be played out in your personal life with your partner. What do you do here? How do you judge what is right and what is ‘wrong’? It’s all really shades of grey, isn’t it?
At City Butterflies we firmly believe that consenting adults can do whatever they want with each other. Browse through our Portfolio of City Butterflies and let your imagination run riot.

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