You know exactly what you want — you just need the right way to say it.
Booking through a reputable agency like City Butterflies means you already have a team on your side.
We’ve been facilitating introductions between discerning gentlemen and exceptional companions across London since 2001, and if there’s one thing we’ve learned in over two decades, it’s this: the best encounters start with the best communication. You don’t need to write a novel. You just need to know what’s worth mentioning, how to phrase it, and who to direct it to.
Let’s walk through exactly how to do that.
Start With What Actually Matters to You
Before you pick up the phone or open WhatsApp, take a moment to think about what would genuinely make or break the experience for you. Not a fantasy screenplay — just the details that shape your comfort and enjoyment.
Are you someone who values conversation over everything else? Do you have a particular evening in mind — a dinner in Kensington, drinks at a hotel bar in Westminster, or a relaxed night in? Maybe you’d prefer someone who’s happy to join a social occasion, or you’d rather keep things private and unhurried.
The clearer you are about the tone of the evening, the better we can match you with a companion who’ll genuinely enjoy it too.
Think of it as giving us the headline, not the full article.
What We Can Confirm (and How We Handle the Rest)
Here’s where we at City Butterflies differ from many agencies.
We are happy to confirm a range of practical details about our companions — things like what she can wear for the occasion, if her photos are recent and genuine, and we can even arrange a recent selfie or short video so you can feel confident before you commit. We’ll tell you if she smokes, if she has any hidden tattoos, if her figure is natural or enhanced, if she’s happy to see you alongside another escort, what drinks she enjoys, if she offers sensual massage, and if she’s the type who loves a good party.
That’s a lot of ground covered — and none of it requires an awkward conversation.
What we don’t do is publish specific intimate services on our website the way some agencies do. We believe that’s a matter of discretion, and frankly, it’s one of the reasons our companions trust us. That said, if you have something particular in mind, you can ask us discreetly, and we’ll let you know if the escort would be happy with that request — or if it’s something she’d accommodate for an additional fee.
The bottom line? All services remain at the escort’s discretion. We prefer to keep things professional, and so do the women we represent.
Keep Your First Message Simple
You don’t need a template. You don’t need formalities. A strong first message to our team covers three things:
When you’d like to meet, where you’re based or planning to be in London, and who caught your eye from our portfolio. That’s the foundation. Everything else — preferences, requests, special touches — we can discuss once the basics are in place.
If you’ve never booked before, there’s genuinely no pressure to have everything figured out. Our team is used to guiding first-time clients through the process with zero judgment. We do this every single day, and discretion is built into every step — from the way we handle your phone communications to how we manage hotel logistics on your behalf.
You set the pace. We handle the rest.
Tone Matters More Than Length
Here’s something worth remembering: the way you communicate your preferences tells us a lot, and it helps us make better recommendations.
A message that says “I’d love a relaxed evening with someone confident and warm — ideally someone who enjoys good wine and easy conversation” gives us more to work with than a bullet-pointed list of physical specifications. Both are fine, but the former paints a picture we can actually match against.
Our companions are intelligent, perceptive women. When we pass along a sense of who you are and what kind of evening you’re hoping for, it helps her prepare — and that’s when the real chemistry happens.
Think personality first, logistics second. You’d be surprised how far a few well-chosen words go.
What If Your Preferences Are More Specific?
Some clients know exactly what they’re looking for, and that’s perfectly welcome. Maybe you prefer a duo booking, or you’re curious about spending an evening with someone particularly open-minded. Perhaps you’re visiting London for business and want a travel companion who can join you for a longer stay.
All of these conversations happen naturally when you get in touch. We don’t need you to lay everything out in a single message. Most of the time, a brief back-and-forth is all it takes to make sure every detail is covered.
And if plans change? That happens too. We’ve written about how rescheduling and cancellations work, so you always know where you stand.
Privacy Is Built Into the Process
We understand that communicating personal preferences requires trust. At City Butterflies, your enquiry is handled with the same level of discretion that high-profile clients expect — because every client deserves that standard, regardless of profile.
Your details stay between you and our team. Full stop.
We’re available via phone, WhatsApp, Telegram, or email — whichever feels most comfortable for you. And once you’ve booked, the companion herself only receives what she needs to ensure you both have an exceptional time together. Nothing more, nothing less.
You Don’t Have to Overthink This
The whole point of working with an established agency is that you don’t have to figure everything out alone. We’ve spent 25 years refining the art of matching the right people with the right experiences — and that starts the moment you reach out.
So be honest, be yourself, and don’t worry about saying too much or too little. We’ll meet you wherever you are.
Ready to start the conversation? Book an appointment or contact us today — and let us take it from there.
